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Friday, December 30th, 2011
Keep Focused

There are so many times in our lives when we lose focus of what our goal and purpose is. Last night I was reminded about Peter walking on the water and how he lost focus.

Matthew 14:22-36 reads …

waves Keep FocusedAs soon as the meal was finished, he insisted that the disciples get in the boat and go on ahead to the other side while he dismissed the people. With the crowd dispersed, he climbed the mountain so he could be by himself and pray. He stayed there alone, late into the night.

Meanwhile, the boat was far out to sea when the wind came up against them and they were battered by the waves. At about four o’clock in the morning, Jesus came toward them walking on the water. They were scared out of their wits. “A ghost!” they said, crying out in terror.

But Jesus was quick to comfort them. “Courage, it’s me. Don’t be afraid.”

Peter, suddenly bold, said, “Master, if it’s really you, call me to come to you on the water.”
He said, “Come ahead.”

Jumping out of the boat, Peter walked on the water to Jesus. But when he looked down at the waves churning beneath his feet, he lost his nerve and started to sink. He cried, “Master, save me!”

Jesus didn’t hesitate. He reached down and grabbed his hand. Then he said, “Faint-heart, what got into you?”

The two of them climbed into the boat, and the wind died down. The disciples in the boat, having watched the whole thing, worshiped Jesus, saying, “This is it! You are God’s Son for sure!”

On return, they beached the boat at Gennesaret. When the people got wind that he was back, they sent out word through the neighborhood and rounded up all the sick, who asked for permission to touch the edge of his coat. And whoever touched him was healed.

The Bible says “Jesus didn’t hesitate. He reached down and grabbed his hand.” This tells me that Peter had literally walked all the way out to Jesus and when he was literally just foot or two away he lost focus.

How many times have you taken a step of faith and while hearing the voice of God, only to get literally feet away from the goal when fear takes you down?

The waves always get a little rough when we are in the Will of God and in those moments satans goal is to get us to take our eyes off God … even just for a second.

As we approach the New Year, I want to encourage you to “Keep Focused”. Keep your eyes on Him. If Peter had just stayed focused of God, fear would have never had the opportunity to shake him up.




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Monday, December 5th, 2011
5 Core Tips For KidMin Small Group Leaders

kids1 5 Core Tips For KidMin Small Group LeadersWe are social beings. God created us to respond and relate to others. Even in the mothers womb one could argue that we are socially aware and needing interaction with the outside world. For this reason, I personally believe that it is imperative that every church has a small group opportunity for kids.

As a leader at one of the largest churches in Northeast Wisconsin I see more and more every day the importance behind our small group programming. Hundreds of kids attend our services each and every weekend and while our leaders do a great job at connecting with as many as possible, there is a greater need for a personal relationship. With this in mind our Wednesday evening programming is programmed for small groups from birth to sixth grade. We have also recently integrated small group times into our weekend programming as well which has proven to really help the kids develop relationships with their peers..

Leading a small group though can be a struggle. Especially if you have never lead one before. With this in mind I would like to share with you what I believe to be the 5 Core Tips For KidMin Small Group Leaders.

1. Round Them Up – I always recommend our small group leaders to gather the kids around in a circle. Nobody, including kids, enjoy looking around or over someone when they are trying to listen to a leader. A circle will provide the kids with a direct visual and allows them to feel like an important part of the group.

2. Everyone Participates – Sometimes sharing in a small group can be awkward but you can nip that in the butt right away by going around the group and getting everyone to answer one simple question. I always encourage the age old question “How was your week? Did you do anything super exciting this week?”. Kids always seem to open up with that question. Asking an open ended question will always get the kids involved and sharing. Even if they respond with “Nothing exciting happened this week” you have broke the ice for that child to speak openly to the group.

3. Be Prepared To Lead Not Read - There is nothing more boring that watching someone read something off a piece of paper. This can be applied to almost any ministry but I guarantee you this much, when you come prepared, your small group time will go well because you are able to flow with your thought processes. Kids will discuss more and be more open with you if you are actually having a discussion with them instead of a book or piece of paper.

4. Bring it – Bring something to your small group that you can pass around the circle. I tend to pass the prop around the circle. Having a prop related to your discussion earns you BIG POINTS! When the child has the prop in their hand they get the opportunity to share. This will add massive structure to your group and will keep kids listening and only speaking at the appropriate time. The prop can be anything from a stuffed animal, a Bible or even a small stone. As long as the kids can hold it in their hands … it’s a win.

5. Create Structure – I have heard many small group leaders over the years comment on how disobedient their group is and how hard it is to keep the kids on topic. I would say that 90% of the time this issue is resolved with solid structure. Design a set format for your small group that the kids will see every week. This will keep them on tract and will help you stay on track as well. We can’t ask the kids to be orderly if there is no order.

There are obviously many other tips out there that would help in the leading of a successful small group however I personally feel that these 5 tips should be at the core of every small group.

Do you lead a small group? Do you have any tips that you would like to share?




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Tuesday, November 29th, 2011
Tribal Leadership

You literally cannot make this journey alone–your tribe will either help you or prevent your forward movement. In fact, you can move forward only by bringing others with you…As you move forward either you will become a Tribal Leader–upgrading your tribe with you–or you will stall.

(From Dave Logan’s book “Tribal Leadership“)




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Friday, November 25th, 2011
5 Posts That Will Change The Way You Lead

Leaders are readers and so today I want to point out a few key blog posts that I have read recently that have impacted my leadership greatly. I hope they have a HUGE impact on your leadership as well as we make an impact in our world.

Make the Ball Come to You
Written by Steven Furtick

Great leaders know how to make the ball come to them. They work hard, yes, but they work hard to make it as easy on themselves as possible. They develop systems that get five times more work done than they could do on their own. They outsource their weaknesses through delegation. They create effective teams that produce a synergy of progress. Click here to read more …

The Four Disciplines of the Heart
Written by Michael Hyatt

He was ready to throw in the towel. And, who could blame him? Life is hard. This is why leaders must understand the importance of their heart and why they must guard it. In times of adversity and temptation, a healthy heart is essential to survival. How can leaders cultivate a healthy heart? Click here to read more …

Good Leaders Will Always Frustrate You
Written by Jeff Goins

A friend once said: “Your best leaders will always frustrate you.” He was talking about leadership and vision and delegation. I’ve been thinking about those words ever since he said them — about how I respond to leadership and about how I lead and influence others. Click here to read more …

Lead Like Jesus
Written by Steven Furtick

Leadership isn’t letting people stay comfortable. Leadership isn’t being easy on your team. Leadership isn’t speaking in nice generalities and letting crap go by without calling people on it. Leadership isn’t about not putting your people in tough circumstances where they’re going to have to think on their feet. Click here to read more …

The Five Marks of Authentic Leadership
Written by Michael Hyatt

Many people have written on what it means to be a leader. Almost everyone identifies influence as the primary characteristic. By definition, this means that leadership and position are two different things. You can have a title, and a position of power, but this does not mean that you are a leader. Even people without these things can exert influence and thus leadership Click here to read more …

read this 5 Posts That Will Change The Way You Lead




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Friday, November 11th, 2011
The Event Every Leader Should Attend

Catalyst One Day Preview Video from Catalyst on Vimeo.

What Others Are Saying

“I have been an Andy fan for a long time and more recently started tuning in to what Craig and LifeChurch are doing…absolutely loved how despite the size of the crowd, much of what they communicated felt like a one on one conversation. This speaks to their ability to communicate but also relates to the incredibly relevant topics that were brought to the table.”
Gene Troyer
Maple City Chapel
Goshen, IN

“Andy and Craig get it. They get it, and they also know how leadership can be used by God to solve the problems we face as church leaders. Catalyst One Day is extremely practical for leaders committed to seeing the church really work and grow in a broken world.”
Brad Russell
Dulles Community Church
South Riding, VA

“The topics were very practical and relevant to ministry issues today, and the presentations were outstanding. I wish every leader in our church could have attended.”
Scott Brown
Bridgman, MI

“The exchange between Andy and Craig was outstanding. It was great seeing two accomplished leaders who are being used by God in tremendous ways, but have very different approaches to ministry and their personal leadership style.”
Scott Himes
Life Church Indy
Indianapolis, IN

“Obviously the Catalyst event in Atlanta is always amazing, but a oneday event is a perfect idea as well. It saved money for hotels, food, and travel. We got hammered with quality leadership in one day, and that night I was at home in bed. The entire experience was incredible.”
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Grand Rapids, MI

To reserve your tickets or for additional information visit www.catalystoneday.com.




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